Effectively challenge yourself by setting measurable, specific, substantial goals. Intangible praise, saying rather than doing, quotes and dreams are inspirational when you are in the moment. However, it is only by setting specific and purposeful intentions for yourself, whether related to business or personal achievement, that you allow yourself space to grow, develop, act and incrementally observe each step toward desired outcomes.
Personal and business management systems based on core values, with quantifiable goals and specific tasks, are more effective than broad encouragement and general company-wide reinforcements and mission statements.
Learn the difference between a solvable problem and a constraint. When you accept negative circumstances as reality to be handled rather than dwelling on something you could actually be working toward changing, you begin to tackle obstacles and problems becomes opportunities to improve your life.
People are often quick to judge another’s situation, offering advice on the proper action and reactions. However, it is easy to ‘do as I say, not as I do.‘ It is not until recognize your own circumstances that you discover there may be areas where you, yourself, sit back without action, hoping rather than planning for something more…eventually…when you make x more dollars, next year, after I just get through one more week,’ whatever it is that is holding you back.
Wishing and waiting for the right time does not create better conditions. There is no magic wand and opportunity seldom comes knocking at your door. To give yourself the best chance at your desired outcome, it is absolutely necessary to organize your thoughts, come up with plans, make decisions, rise above self-doubt and fear and take calculated risks.
There are specific times in each of our lives; moments of choice, when our personal and business lives change course and conclusive actions are needed. Look back at your life, which is actually full of brilliant lessons learned through each disappointment and success. Learn from each feat as well as each mistake, and then work and practice to create your desired circumstances.
Success requires honestly assessing your situation, and then making necessary changes. This often requires being prepared and able to make sacrifices in the form of time, money, and personal situations; relinquishing a thing you know for the benefit of something greater but unfamiliar. Change can be scary and bold goals require effort.
At times you will need to assert yourself by asking for what you need, which can be an uncomfortable situation even for assured individuals. Look at those people and situations you admire and be aware that leadership and living with integrity requires being aligned with your core values.
When facing life experiences that require change you must often step well beyond your comfort zone and stand up for what you believe in and values you are committed to - for yourself and for those around you – whether work, family or community. Embrace obstacles and you find that adversity creates inspiration, appreciation and opportunity.
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